Choosing Happiness over Strength


Now that I feel myself becoming happier by the day (literally, the upward curve is insane!) – I’ve taken some time on reflecting how I got to be where I am now, and how I prevented myself from getting here a lot sooner.

These types of reflections – where you honestly and critically look at your behavior, not through a lens of defending your actions or justifying your emotions, but through a lens of objective observation and brutal honesty – can be equally painful as they can be enlightening. But as such: they’re damn important. Especially if, like me, you can share the outcomes and (hopefully) influence some of the brains around you as well. To prevent them from being the same dumbass you yourself have been on many an occasion. Voila.

So. In general – I feel like I know myself pretty well. I know…

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