If I had to endow you with the most genuine advice on earth today, it would be to stop the art of public pleasing. As good as it sounds, & no matter how upfront you stay for people, you’ll end up hurt in this process. Working with a mindset, that maybe they’ll like me if I’ll do this for them, is just getting you entangled in the rusty chains of anxiety and constant seeking of self-validation with this act.
I read it somewhere, “Don’t cross oceans for people who wouldn’t cross a puddle for you”. If you are doing something for someone, do it with an intention of genuinely helping them out and that too after understanding & analyzing the fact, whether they are in dire need of that help or not. Your time is precious honey!
But, never do something just for the sake of the fact…
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